Monday, January 16, 2012

I feel like an amatuer when it comes to dating...

     Last week I went out on a date for the first time in a while with someone who is interested in me in more than just being friends.  The date was a good experience as both of us were engaged in conversation most of the time and there wasn't to much awkward silence. 

There was a genuine attraction. 

     So as we talked over dinner, I made the comment "if we date" and this man basically stopped me mid sentence and declared that WE ARE DATING...  In shock and aww I just shut my mouth.  How dare he tell me what we are doing...  LOL  but isn't this exactly what I have been wanting?  A man who is not afraid to declare his feelings, who knows what he wants in a woman and relationship.  Lays his cards on the table and plays them at will...

     This was a lesson learned for sure... I have to let my guard down a bit.  I think my actions and words sometimes because defense mechanisms to avoid another broken heart.  It really is just me getting into my own way...  I will see what happens with this one...

1 comment:

  1. it's okay for him to take charge, but to a certain point. just watch out for the 'red flags'! good luck and make the best of it!