Last week I went out on a date for the first time in a while with someone who is interested in me in more than just being friends. The date was a good experience as both of us were engaged in conversation most of the time and there wasn't to much awkward silence.
There was a genuine attraction.
So as we talked over dinner, I made the comment "if we date" and this man basically stopped me mid sentence and declared that WE ARE DATING... In shock and aww I just shut my mouth. How dare he tell me what we are doing... LOL but isn't this exactly what I have been wanting? A man who is not afraid to declare his feelings, who knows what he wants in a woman and relationship. Lays his cards on the table and plays them at will...
This was a lesson learned for sure... I have to let my guard down a bit. I think my actions and words sometimes because defense mechanisms to avoid another broken heart. It really is just me getting into my own way... I will see what happens with this one...
it's okay for him to take charge, but to a certain point. just watch out for the 'red flags'! good luck and make the best of it!
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