Monday, January 13, 2014

Being a Woman First...

Happy Monday!!!

This morning I woke up feeling great...  I have really been thinking about myself as a woman.  I think through all the hustling I do as a mother, student, and worker bee, I forget that I am a beautiful woman.  So this morning I took the time to pick out something pretty flattering for my body type to wear to work...  I also added a little make-up to my face and last night I flat-ironed and pin-curled my hair to have a soft look....  I am telling you these little added touches made all the difference in the world... I am smiling and I feel amazing.  I am ready to concur the world today...

I am a true believer in God but also the law of attraction...  I will attract positive vibes into my life today...  Be GREAT!!!

Peace and Blessings,

Friday, January 10, 2014

Taking ownership....

Good day all...

How in 2014 presenting itself for you?  So far, so good I hope...

I was reminded yesterday that I have to take ownership of my role in my friendships/relationships/acquaintances...  I was having a phone conversation with a man who made the statement "you must have a man now because I don't hear from you unless I call you"...  I guess I went into defense mode because I immediately began to verbalize all the reason why I didn't call based on what I thought HE wanted....  The truth of the matter was I changed.  I no longer desired his company because we were headed down two completely different roads in life.  Once I realized what I was doing I apologized to him for that and explain to him MY reasons for cutting ties with him.  He appreciated that and my honesty of course.

My opinion is that we rarely see our role in why relationships end or change pace.  It will be my goal to now take ownership for my actions and/or reactions to situations with my friends and acquaintances...  I will try hard to not put all the blame on the other party.  I think it is human nature to do so but I am going to break this cycle in MY life.  Take heed....  LOL

Peace and Blessings,


Friday, January 3, 2014

What I deserve more of in 2014...

Pondering over my 2014 goals I've decided to share with you the things I deserve more of in 2014.

  1. Weekend get-a-ways with and without the lil diva's...  I do enjoy a couple of days to get away from the noise and even when I take my daughters with me they are old enough now to do their own thing for the most part so weekend trips with them are usually peaceful as long as they have their own space.
  2. Long French Kisses on a Saturday afternoon.  So YES I have been SINGLE but I also have been DATING, which means I have shared a few great kisses...  Oh to have that cloud 9 feeling again...  Have you every been kissed so damn good that you nearly pass out from feeling light headed.... Yup I deserve more of that in 2014.
  3. Happiness.  I must say 2012 and 2013 had bad points but for the most part I was very HAPPY...  Happy with myself and all the things that I achieved.  I hope to continue that path.
  4. Music.  I deserve to enjoy more music by way of concerts and live bands.  I am a music lover to the core.  
  5. Progress towards that bikini body.  I will continue my workout regimen in hopes to find that beautiful bikini body I once had again.... 
  6. Experience love with no BOUNDARIES...  If I say it loud enough it will manifest itself.
What are some of the things you deserve more of in 2014?  Let me know in the comments section

Peace and Blessings