Every now and again I do get in a little funk about my current relationship status. Today just happens to be one of those times. I could sit around having a pity party about it but instead I decided to just write some of my thoughts in this blog post.
Well my first thought is why has it been so difficult at 35 for me to come across a match... They don't have to be perfect but they have to be in the same head space as me. I hope to someday be with a man I can call my friend first and secondly we be in the same head space at the same time. What I mean is we are in search of something more out of our friendship which leads to a more productive relationship and so on and so forth.
My second thought is are my standards to high. Am I being unrealistic with my relationship expectations? Am I at a age where I have to bend a little... I don't personally feel that I have high standards but I may have to re-evaluate SOME things...
My last thought that I will share with you today... Am I too comfortable with being single? Have I been in this state of mind so long that I am not putting off an ora of the need to be in a relationship? I was talking to a man recently and he seemed to believe that I may find it difficult to let go of the control that I have had to have in managing my own life by myself for so long. It is an interesting thought but I don't think it will be difficult for me to do.
Thanks for reading and comment if you desire
Peace and Blessings....
in today's society, most men (if they are not already taken) are looking to "just have a good time" and move on to the next one...., they are basically "commitment phobic" and tend to think & act as if they can have their cake and eat it too! ...in other words, the good ones are already taken and there are only slim pickings left out there! a lot of women just submit to their situations, and end up compromising their principals and beliefs in order to be in a relationship with a man. jmo
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