I recently completed the course "Applying Psychology" where we discussed a lot about perceptions. That has been a lingering subject in my mind lately and I just wanted to talk about it as a single woman. You see people perceive that because I am single I am unhappy... Well contrary to popular belief, I am rather the opposite. I occupy my time with things that I enjoy the most... I spend time with my daughters which brings me the most joy. Little do they know that while I am nurturing them they are doing the same for me.
I date... Yes I said it... I date... LOL I go out on dates with men who share the same interest as I do... I just work at a snails pace when it comes to relationships now-a-days... It is my preference.
Another perception that I get especially from men is that I need to be "saved" from this state of being single... LOL I think it is funny because that is a number one turn off for me. While I want a man in my life who is a provider, the only man in my life that has been my savior, died on the cross 2011 years ago.
I just enjoy writing about my random thoughts while being 35 and single. I wish I could write more about my dating experiences but I just keep them to myself to protect the innocent. I hope everyone is gearing up for the Christmas/New Year holidays. I hope to be going to Brooklyn to visit family during this time.
Peace and Blessings to you...