Monday, July 16, 2012

Another mini-vacation....

So if you have been reading my blog for a while you know I am passionate about my mini-vacations.  So this weekend I will be traveling to California for the Party in Palm Springs.  This is an annual event and this will be my 3rd time attending.  I like this event because it is a mature crowd and we all have a great time. 

It is also a good way for me to get out of my comfort zone of my east coast home town.  Of course as always I will post some pictures of the trip once I am back and settled in...  I hope all is well with you...

Peace and Blessings....

Thursday, July 5, 2012

How I deal with love...

I attempt to be transparent most of the time in this blog as I want to be able to relate to the people who choose to read it.  So for the last few months I have been hanging out with this man.  We have no title, we are just friends.  Unfortunately, the timing has been off as far as where I am in my relationship goals and where he is...  I decided to hang out with him because at the time of our introductions I wasn't attached and I was craving the company of someone.  He fell right into place.  The friendship has been amazing. 

Without all the complications of having a title (boyfriend/girlfriend) I have allowed this friendship to develop naturally and I find myself loving this man.  Technically I do love him based on the definition:

love (noun)

1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

3. sexual passion or desire.

Now how do I deal with this since we have clearly defined our friendship as just a friendship?  It is difficult.  Love is a strong and powerful emotion.  It can make me vulnerable and open to get emotional hurt, especially when the feeling isn't mutual.  I am just going to continue to go with the flow and keep telling myself that we are just friends.
Oh well just some early morning ramblings...
Peace and Blessings

Monday, July 2, 2012

Is love overrated???

Is love overrated? I mean it feels good but hurts like hell. Is the good feeling worth the pain? One minute your laughing and cuddling and the next your crying and hurting. Is love overrated?