Because I am a christian I have to attribute all of what I am about to say to my relationship that I have with God...
I can truly say at this moment, God has given me my second wind. I must admit that I took a hard fall after my last failed relationship but what I have realized over the last 2 weeks is that I love myself so much more than that relationship. I had to realize that God has his hand all throughout my life and things happen for a reason. I am not bitter nor have I ever really been about no longer being in a relationship because the last one taught me how to love again... Not only to love another person wholeheartedly but love myself completely again.
I say that because I believe that I was truly broken through-out the last 7 years... I had a failed marriage and no solid foundation to stand on. But now I have realized that I had to continue to stand on the word of God and things will happen in the order that he wants them to. I am actually proud of myself for standing strong and allowing my walk to influence the walk of my two precious daughters. I know that this blog is dedicated to my single life blunders and wonders but I had to take a moment and give praise where praise is due...
Be Blessed everyone and live life like there is no tomorrow.
This is my account of being a 30 something single woman in 2013. The primary purpose of this is to share my dating horrors and success stories. This is my way of venting a little.... LOL Feel free to share your thoughts and opinions.
Saturday, August 6, 2011
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Am I getting in my own way?
Long time no see... LOL... Anyway recently I was asked out on a dinner date from someone that I have known for a while. He asked me out via text on a Tuesday and I responded, after much thought, on a Thursday and agreed to go out. When he responded he said "Wow! What a late response. Lol!" and I didn't respond to that. So a few days later he sends yet another text and ask "Where you chillin at tonight? Trying to figure out where I'm going. Would be nice to run into you.". I was in the house for the evening and advised him of that.
At this point he hadn't even scheduled the dinner date so finally he asked *ME* when is dinner happening and I respond with you tell me. So in my mind I think... HERE WE GO AGAIN... I mean if a man ask a woman out on a date, shouldn't he have some idea of what he wants to do, when he wants to go, etc... I know I have children and you may be taking them into consideration but I have already told you that I am flexible...
Dating is like finding a needle in a hay stack...
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