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Monday, November 25, 2013

I don't want to date a woman who has kids....

There are some phrases as a single woman with children that just make my skin crawl.  The title of this blog post is on the top of the list.  While I know that is a man's preference and everyone is entitled to their preference...  It just baffles me when a man (who has kids) says this...  It is my opinion that this statement is one of the most selfish things to say to a single woman raising her child(ren)...  Well if you are a man who has kids....  

I am sure there are several reasons why a man doesn't want to date a woman that has children...  I am sure they think there will be drama with the kids father or if there is a difference of opinion on how to discipline a kid, etc...  While those could be valid, I think each situation presents itself differently...  And does that man ever stop for a moment and think about the drama they may bring to a relationship with their kids mother... 

My point with this post really is that people (men and women) need to stop generalizing and putting people in a box based on the last situation they were in...  You could miss out on great opportunities...


Peace and Blessing
Shivawn

P.S.  this post is random and unedited