Hi all!!! Wanted to send a quick happy new year to all those who choose to read this blog. I am very appreciative of your the time you take to read a glimpse of my life. I don't mind sharing as it is therapy for me. I see big things coming to this blog in 2014 including moving to a private domain. I am very exited about this. I hope for increase in 2014...
Love, Peace, and Blessings
Shivawn
This is my account of being a 30 something single woman in 2013. The primary purpose of this is to share my dating horrors and success stories. This is my way of venting a little.... LOL Feel free to share your thoughts and opinions.
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Wednesday, December 4, 2013
The Effects of An Ex
My long distance Ex taught me patience and trust and also how to let go of standards that I set which make me get in my own way. I say that because for a long time I was pretty concrete about not being in a long distance relationship. I, however, went against the grain and allowed myself to let go of my guard and try it out. For a long time it worked very well. That Ex also made me appreciate the precious time we got to spend together when we did see each other and to embrace each moment. God knows the visits were epic...
Lastly, I would like to speak on my Ex husband and the after effects of marriage. From that relationship I learned how to compromise, be unselfish, commitment, and the value of family. I appreciate that from him playing the role of husband and father for the short period of time we were together.
As always these are just random thoughts of a single woman... I hope you can relate and share in the comments...
Peace and Blessings,
Shivawn
Tuesday, December 3, 2013
No Condom - No Cookie
Situation: A man text a woman and asked her if they could have sex tonight. The woman responds and says yes and lets the man know that he needs to wear a condom. If no condom then no sex. The woman never hears from the man again....
It appears that majority of the men and women only think about not getting a woman pregnant. Well what about getting an STD or HIV? There is no comfort level for me when it comes to unprotected sex. Even in the best situations I have seen husbands giving their wives an STD. Sad but true. So if you take a deaf ear to my request to put on a condom then you gets none of this cookie... Do your research... http://www.cdc.gov/std/
Just Saying...
Peace and Blessing
Shivawn
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