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Thursday, December 31, 2009

The phone call...

Hi all, So yesterday I get a phone call from a man that I have known for about 2 years now. We dated casually when we first met but I was still at a crossroads from another relationship and decided that I need to close one book before I opened another one.... To make a long story short.... He and I kept in touch and are friends but now he is in a relationship and it appears to be a pretty good one. That is great and I am happy for him as he would always tell me that "Nice guys finish last"... Anyway, on the phone yesterday he ask me why didn't I call him to check up on him... My response was something like "Isn't that what your girlfriend is for?".... Was that a wrong statement? I mean he and I are friends but not to the point where I was conversating with him everyday. I feel that out of respect for his girl I don't call. I wouldn't want that to happen to me. Plus when I get on the phone with this dude he makes all kinds of cracks about us going to dinner or me coming over so he can cook for me and such.... IMO that is a set up and I just don't have time for it. So do I cut ties with this man? I don't need the attention from an already taken man for sure....

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Out with the old, making room for the new.....

So as the year 2009 comes to a close, I have decided, for the first time in years, to have a clean slate in the men department. I decided to let go of some of those lingering relationships that I had established over the years that were non-productive. Almost all of them understood. SN: I am happy about that... What I have realized is that I was doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results....(the definition of insanity)... I really desire something different in regards to a relationship in 2010.

I know part of it is me.... I have been told that I have a "I could care less if your in my life or not" attitude recently and I don't like that label. I do care a lot but I don't sweat the small stuff.

So anyway, the purpose of this blog for me is to share and get feedback on some of the dating scenarios that I go through in 2010. I think it is fun to get the opinion of the population and my peers. All names and identities will not be included to respect privacy. I hope that all who reads enjoys....